(I make it my mission to help my people create their entire home into their Divine Sacred Space especially if they have been suffering living with clutter and chaos. If you are in that uncomfortable situation take a look at what could happen to your Love Life if it is not addressed – )


Hello Gorgeous! Happy St. Valentine’s Day!

It’s that time, once again, to set the stage for the most deep, intimate, loving encounter – with yourself if you are single or with your significant other if you are a couple.

First, decide where you are going to set up your special space. The living room or bedroom are the most popular of course!

Next –  Clear the space of all negative or weak energy to open up and allow high vibration and those loving feelings to enter in and ignite the senses.

Here’s How – 

Tidy up!Make your space as tidy and inviting as possible. You really don’t want to be tripping over stuff on the floor or see piles of ironing or old magazines stuffed in the corners, when you are aiming to feel loved up. You deserve to treat yourself like a guest in a hotel or spa!

Smudge – Clear the air of any negative or stale energy and bring in a sense of safety and protection by burning Palo Santo (Sacred Wood). It’s also really good for quieting the mind and helping us to focus. It’s time to focus on what we DESIRE!

Crystals – Rose Quartz – The mother of all gem stones for attracting unconditional love, romantic love, self love – All the loves!! It holds the Divine Feminine energy and allows you to open your heart to receive not only love and also abundance. Placing it n around your home also supports positive changes in life.

Feng Shui – For positive placement of items in the home – This ancient practice helps to bring prosperity, protection, happiness and Love into the home. To get started – Stand at the entrance to the room and look at the far right-hand corner. That is your “relationship corner”. Make sure there is no clutter, mirrors, plants or work related things in that spot.  Place any items there in pairs – cherubs, birds, pictures with figures in pairs – you get the gist! Place flowers such as roses and pink peonies which have very high attraction-vibration. 

Scent – Our sense of smell is highly connected with our emotional expression and it holds our memories. Have gorgeous, scented flowers like roses beautifully displayed. Flowers always make you feel opulent and loved. Add a few drops of Rose Essential Oil to a diffuser – this beautiful scent has been proven to reduce anxiety and induce relaxation at a deep level. Add this to a few drops of precious Frankincense and the experience will be heavenly!

Light – Ambient lighting always sets a mood. You can use candles (scented of course!) as well as up lighters and side lamps, and indeed, the light from the fireplace!

Touch – Sets your senses alive!  Have beautiful, tactile fabrics and surfaces everywhere. Soft cushions, throws, high thread-count Egyptian cotton or silk sheets, velvet. These textiles will always bring a sense of luxury and make you feel gorgeously cherished.

Sounds – Use a singing bowl to further clear any jagged energy in your space. Play deep soulful tracks to set the mood – Marvin Gaye with Sexual Healing – you can’t go wrong with Barry White, Teddy Pendergrass or Sade – or your fave playlists on Spotify or iTunes etc. How about Indigenous American Flutes for connecting with your higher self. Very Tantric!

Taste – Ceremonial Cacao (instead of wine) This gorgeous, warming drink is used in mediation and healing ceremonies. It opens your heart to receiving all that Love energy floating in the air and between you. 

Meditation for Singles 

Place your hand on your Heart Chakra

Use your Divine imagination to feel into the kind of person you are aiming to attract into your Love life. Breathe deeply into their soul. They are seeking you too! Allow the sounds, scent, touch, energy to flow into your soul and out to the cosmos to allow your divine soul-mate to find you. Read Calling in the One by Katherine Woodward Thomas

Meditation for Couples.

Place your hands on your Heart Chakras

Feel into the beautiful Sacred Space that you have both created. Take the time to look deeply into each other’s eyes and feel into your hearts and each other’s soul. Take deep heart soul-connected breaths, matching each other. Touch each other with a healing, sensual, loving touch – take time and explore what pleases your lover…..

Allow the sounds, the scents, the textures, the lighting, the tastes and the high vibration energy to surround you both and wrap you into rapture ….


…… A Happy Ending to a Happy Valentine’s

With L.O.V.E – Together We Can! 

Jennifer x 

If you or anyone you know would like to enhance their Sacred Space for L.O.V.E. affection and relaxation