The Art of Surrender

THE ART OF SURRENDER

Why am I still here in the UK?

What have I still got to do to get me on the plane back to my new home in Costa Rica?

What’s holding me back?

What am I still to learn?

Who am I being right now?

What do I have to remember? – Ah yes ….. SURRENDER!

As a coach it’s my practice to ask questions of my clients for them to find their answers within.

So now I’m asking myself some deep level questions because I have not yet returned to my beloved Costa Rica – my new home.

I miss my home so much and yet the longer I stay the more I’m receiving in terms of items that I can’t get easily get in CR – I’m also receiving life lessons, messages and downloads for clients and friends – And, most importantly and surprisingly, profound insights into my own mind and being-ness!

Plus I’m waiting for the slae of my Mum’s house to complete. (Don.t Ask!)

I realise that I was being controlling and forcing my energy, instead of allowing and flowing. Which is what I teach – DOH!!!

I remember a time when I was renovating my beautiful house in Hasting on the SE coast of the UK.

I was in a huge rush and panic to finish the flooring on the whole of the ground floor – all by myself (I’m a bit crazy like that!)

I had to have it ready for the next day because my first set of English language students were arriving. I was a “host Mum” to the students. I was in a huge panic – I was extremely tired at this time after 3 weeks of continues work.

I was so freaked out that the work I was doing wasn’t going well.

I just could not get the panels to click together along the edges by the skirting. If I didn’t do it right the whole floor would unravel and I’d have to start again

Bearing in mind that the flooring ran from the front door – though the hallway into the dining area, (the point where I was working) – into the kitchen area and into the utility area and back door!! In one long panel – I think it was about 70ft long!

I was in tears – I remember thinking “… Go to bed, have some rest and ask God – the Divine Source, for help”. Which is what I did.

I calmed down said my prayer – “Please God I need help here – I’ve done the work, can you meet me halfway to finish this? Thank you!”

Then I felt the feeling of pushing and pressure leave my body – and I went off to sleep.

When I woke up the next morning I didn’t even think about the unfinished work,

I felt calm – I felt light!

I looked out of my bedroom window and thanked the Universe/ God / The Most High – for where I’m living (That was a miracle manifestation in itself – a story for another time).

I calmly had my shower – got dressed – went down to the kitchen – I didn’t even look at the patch I was trying to finish – had my breakfast – got my tools out.

And – as if by magic, the panels slotted into place like butter!

How crazy was that though?!

I did the same actions with the same tools like I had yesterday but the thing that had changed was my vibration, my inner energy.

I felt soul connected, at peace, in flow …. I had surrendered!

You might say to me that it was because I had a good night’s sleep? Well firstly, that hadn’t worked for all the nights over the 3 weeks I had been working on the house – and secondly I actually felt different within my core – my soul. So go figure!

So here I am right now, being out of integrity with my word – my learning – my wisdom and not practicing what I preach.

This morning I woke up with a profound realisation that I’m not stuck! – I’m here to do some more work, healing for a dear friend. Her energy is sparking and vicious, preventing what she is requesting from her higher-self/source to come through to fruition. I’m still here to help her shift her energy. In so doing, I will have to shift mine.

I’m going to meditate – breathe – “Let go and let God!”– and SURRENDER to my wishes, as if they are already fulfilled. Be in a state of trust and faith and flow ….. being in my Divine Feminine energy.

(Guys you can do this too, as we all have both masculine and feminine energies within us. We just have to learn how to shift from one to other when we need to operate more effectively).

I will let you know how I get on in my next post…

So, this is all about remembering who you are – who I am!

We are sovereign beings with a soul that is having a human experience.

We already know what we have to do or be – We just forgot as we came into this dimension. We fell asleep just like Adam in the Bible story – (By the way there is nowhere in that sacred book where it says that he woke up again!)

It’s now our time to awaken, see the truth of who we are and use our superpowers to make the changes required in the world – We shine our inner Diamond Light and help others to do the same.

So that we can evolve and ascend and make the world a better place as we awaken.

Here are 5 tips to help you with the Art of SURRENDER – (based on tips from my fave girl – Mandy Morris)

1. Ask the right questions – Are you operating in flow or in force? Check in with your energy and thinking before you act. (Just like I did for myself)

Here is an awesome book that has helped me and my clients with this – The Right Questions – by Debbie Ford

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Right-Questions-Debbie-Ford/dp/0062517848

2. Let go and let God! Let go of the How and the When – all you need to know is the What and the Why. The Why is really important because that aligns with your soul – think carefully and be careful what you ask for.

3. Open your field of possibility – Stop focusing on what’s missing and the “stuckness”. Open up to what could be for the good of all, You might just notice that what you are waiting for is right beside you all along – Like me being kept back to help my friend and the other good things that came my way.

4. Take a step forwards – Take action that is aligned with what you want or where you want to go. Do not worry if it’s the right step or not – Then completely let go! Because you are moving forwards the Universe will meet you along the way.

5. Have a little chat with God/ Universe / Divine Intelligence / Your Higher-self – whoever is your source of soul energy. Talk as if you are best mates or business colleagues in partnership with each other – No boss! Now you are not doing this alone – now you are letting yourself be guided by a best friend.

So there you have it!

Give these tips a go and let me know how you get on. It will be so much fun and I know all this will help you.

If you feel the need for more please get in touch for a chat.

https://calendly.com/j-beaumont-whyte/let-s-have-a-chat

Sometimes we just need a sound board to help us think things through.

Other times we need a major operation on our entire life.

Either way – I’ve got you!

With Love – Together We Can!

Jen x

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Jennifer Beaumont-Whyte

Life Transformation Specialist & Coach

Founder of The D.I.A.M.O.N.D.S. – Life Programme

Jennifer loves to work with highly motivated, awakened, inspired men and women who are passionate about doing what they love and making a difference in the world.

Jennifer intuitively connects with Source and channels life and business wisdom helping her clients to shift mind, body and soul from where they are to where they want to be. They get clear on their vision and create a lifestyle that supports their business and celebrates their life-purposes – living a life that lights them up!

She has created the unique and powerful D.I.A.M.O.N.D.S. – Life Programme that combines coaching and psycho-sensory modalities to help transform her client’s pain to positivity and their problems to possibility.

Jennifer is also a Speaker, Author, Blogger, EFT Master Practitioner, Life Transformation and Business Coach, Event Producer

JEN’S MISSION is to help her people move from fear to love, become the best version of themselves and use their unique genius to help make the world a better place.