IDENTITY IS EVERYTHING!
“You Will Never Achieve More Than Who You Think You Are – At Your Core”
Hey Gorgeous One!
Can you think back to a time where what you were thinking became reality?
You really wished for something to happen, to the point where you lived it, breathed it, acted on it and then there it was! – And you had no clue how that impossible dream happened!
That is because you became that person – you claimed that identity in your soul and you caused the shift without realising that you were causing miracles.
Did you however manage to lose the thing that you achieved later on?
Or did you somehow feel flat or out of sorts – not fulfilled by the achievement? That’s because if you did not truly embody that causal new identity, you would default back to the old one. And so would your reality,
There was a time where I once fell in love with, and managed to buy, a house that on paper I was not supposed to be able to afford. Once I set my heart on this house I became obsessed!
I saw myself living there, working on it, decorating it, cooking, cleaning, entertaining. I could smell the food, I could see the people who came to live there as lodgers or students. I could see myself paying the bills etc. I was absorbed into the identity of being the owner of a huge house overlooking water on the south east coast of England.
And then as if by magic I had the keys in my hand and opened the door to the reality of it. My dream was real!
I loved it! – I lived it! – I had so many happy memories there!
However there was always this underlying thought that I should not be there and I don’t deserve it.
My core identity did not match my reality and in the end I lost the house 4 years later.
That was before I started studying Life Coaching and personal development, energy healing alongside the Universal Laws. One of which states that, you cannot rise beyond the level of the identity that you believe yourself to be.
No matter your success, you will always default to who you believe yourself to be inside.
If you think you are a victim you will attract situations that will prove that you are a victim!
If you think you are a king you will attract situations that prove you are a king!
If you think you are a winner you will attract situations where you always win!
Identity affects our emotions, attitude and therefore our behaviour and actions then our results. Our achievements!
Here’s the weird thing. Even if you have huge success you will default back to the identity that you perceive yourself to be inside.
It’s like a thermostat that you have set for yourself – I take that back – a thermostat that’s been set for you!
Let me explain my point of view here.
We come back into this world as perfect, sovereign, human beings. We have no expectations apart from being fed and kept clean, comforted and safe. As we grow we are curious about our world. We try things, we learn, we explore etc.
Over time the ones who are our guardians feel that it’s their duty to keep us safe, so they prevent us from doing certain things.
On top of that they have been conditioned from birth themselves to comply with social and cultural norms so they think they are doing the right thing to impose that norm onto us.
We must fit into the box that has been constructed to make us forget our true identity as free sovereign beings and keep us in fear so that we can be controlled.
Once we wake up and remember who we are, that is amazing super humans with superpowers and we can bend time, jump timelines and create our reality. Then we drop that thinking down into our heart space and radiate the energy of that out into the Universe.
Our lives literally change to the one that matches the identity that we create in our super marvellous brain.
That is who we are – that is how powerful we are!
You can choose to be whoever you desire to be.
You can choose your identity. You do it all the time!
When you chose your identity you embody the frequency of that identity and everything and everyone that does not match will fade away!
So my lovely one, who do you believe yourself to be today, right now?
- Take a look at your environment – does it match who you want to be?
- Take a look at your friends, family associates – are you “the average of the 5 people that you spend the most time with?” Are you happy with that?
- Take a look at your health – are you living in your best body?
- Take a look at the places you go, the things you buy, the food you eat – do you always by the best that is available? Or are you professing that you can’t afford things?
We are more powerful than we believe ourselves to be. Because we are creating our reality all of the time. From a place of who we precive ourselves to be.
The manifesting light switch is on all the time! The light shines on the exact identity that you create for yourself.
If your identity can be formed or created by others and outside influences surely it can be uncreated by you so that you can create the identity you truly want for yourself.
In order to get to that point it’s wise thing to get to grips with who you are being right now. Then you will know what has to change and what is useful to keep.
With my D.I.A.M.O.N.D.S. – Life Programme we touch on many modalities to help you determine how you are navigating the world – How you subconsciously see yourself.
– What is your Dominant Feminine or Masculine Archetype?
– What are your core Values – your drivers?
– What are your self-talk mantras that need elevating?
Getting to know who you want to become is the first step!
What Identity will you chose for yourself today? – I would love to know.
With Love – Together We Can!
Jen x
Jennifer Beaumont-Whyte
Transforming Lives – Healing Hearts
Her great work is focused on transformational coaching courses and personal development programs, which utilise psycho-somatic modalities to help clear any subconscious blocks on the path to your success.
Jennifer is also the creator of the D.I.A.M.O.N.D.S. – SHINE framework, a blueprint for helping ambitious entrepreneurs and creatives to reignite their brilliance so that they can BE the best version of themselves, DO what they love for the world HAVE their hearts most wanted desires!
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